With the holiday season here, this week’s challenge is perfect timing. We are all striving for this perfect balance in life where everything is perfect and we aren’t stressed out. I can tell you that doesn’t exist BUT I can also tell you there is YOUR perfect life balance out there. Yes, you read that right. YOUR life balance.
Think about it… Why do you get stressed? Is it because you have overcommitted yourself or your kids? Do those things you committed to align with your values? Are they making you a better person or making you a stressed out mess? Are you doing them because that’s “what you are supposed to do” or because “the other moms are doing it?” Comparing yourself to others is the killer of joy.
This week (heck this whole holiday season) I want to challenge you to go back to where you wrote down your values. Think about your commitments and check yourself. It’s OK to say NO. It’s OK to say YES if it is truly something that aligns with your values and brings you joy.
Your kids won’t remember the perfect holiday decoration or event or even a messy house (as long as it doesn’t get out of hand 
) They will remember how you act around them. They will remember you taking the time to be present and have conversations or playing with them. They will remember the tone of your voice. They will remember if you are positive and upbeat or complaining all the time. Those are the things that matter. Putting those things first you will find your perfect life balance.
Give yourself grace everyday and love the life you have.