The first of the big 3 questions we will dig deeper on is “Who are You?” This is the first important question because you have to figure out who you are before you can decide where you are going. Discovering who you are will help sort out what is worth your time and sacrifice to go get it. (aka the where question)
Having self awareness gives you massive power. Don’t overlook it or think that it isn’t for you. Spending time reflecting on your life keeps you focused on your values. Do you know what your core values are? If not, that’s the first step. What words do you want to be remembered by? How do you want someone to describe you? That’s your values.
Another reflection point is learning what core motivations are behind the actions you take. Reflecting on your motivations helps you understand if you are following your values. Based on your reflection you can know what actions do you need to change or keep doing. This requires asking yourself “Why did I do that?” Make a weekly routine or even daily routine of doing this. You will be amazed at the progress you can make with being intentional.
This time IS important. It needs to be uninterrupted with your phone put away and distractions gone. It doesn’t have to be long. Start with 5 minutes. Write down your thoughts. Do whatever it takes to make sure you are following your values.
“We can’t fix what we won’t take the time to understand. If you’re willing to make the trip under the surface, you’ll find some pretty great stuff there. Why settle for the surface-level version of yourself when you can go a little deeper and discover the core of who you really are?” Bob Goff
Take the time…right now… don’t wait….
